Q: My 2.5-year-old daughter holds onto multiple toys all day. Should I be concerned?
- Myeongchan Kim
- 2 days ago
- 2 min read
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Question: My 2.5-year-old daughter seems healthy and typical, but she's recently developed a new habit. She has always had a favorite doll, but now she insists on wearing her favorite hat all day while carrying the doll, a magnifying glass, sunglasses, a small light, a card, and a necklace. She takes this collection of items with her everywhere she goes. She gets very frustrated when she drops things because her hands are so full. I think part of this might be because she doesn't want her sister to take her things. Is this behavior something to be concerned about?
Answer: This is super common and a normal developmental stage. Many toddlers do this. It's part of how they learn about their things and feel secure. The collection of items might seem random to us, but it makes sense to her.
- Comfort items: Her doll and hat are likely "transitional objects." They help her feel safe, especially with a sister around. She's creating a little bubble of her own stuff.
- Sibling stuff: You're probably right that some of it is about her sister. She's figuring out what's "hers." This is her way of keeping her special things safe.
- Frustration is normal: Her hands are small and her coordination is still developing. It's okay for her to get frustrated when she drops things. You can try offering a small bag or basket for her treasures.
I think It's nothing to be concerned about and usually passes on its own.
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